Who Do You See When You Look In the Mirror?

Today at the Farmers Agency Development Center I had a special seminar for all of the Agents that I train.  I had a special guest speaker, Joe Schoenig, from Lubbock, TX.  Joe is one of the greatest agents in the history of Farmers Insurance, but more importantly, he is a great man.  I have heard him speak many times and every time he has made an impact on my life.  Well it happened again today.  I make a living by teaching salespeople how to hammer out a living in a highly competitive industry.  Unfortunately for me, I am usually the one speaking to people rather than being spoken to.  I learned a long time ago that you learn more from listening than you do by talking.  I believe this is the reason God gave us two ears and one mouth.  Since my business requires me to talk all the time, I don't get many opportunities to get to hear other people and learn from them.  Today was a good day.  I got fed!

Over the last 7 years of my life, I have seen a lot of agents come and go.  So what is the difference between success and failure in all facets of life?  One of my favorite quotes (and a quote that I try to live my life by) is, "Successful people are successful because they form the habits of doing things that failures don't like to do."  This quote is from the essay "The Common Denominator of Success" by Albert Gray (take time to read it, it may change your life).  I believe this statement to be true in business, marriage, raising kids, sports, and the list goes on.  We all want success in everything we do.  The question is not whether or not we want success.  The question is are we willing to do the things that we don't want to do in order to obtain success.  I don't like doing laundry or washing dishes, but if I don't, the wife is not very happy with me.  If the wife is not happy, well...I will stop there, you probably get the point.

OK, so where am I going with all of this psychological mumbo jumbo?

While I still hope to continue to live my life by the quote I referenced above, Joe shook things up for me a little bit today.  I have probably heard Joe make this statement before, but it just didn't register.  Maybe I wasn't quite ready for it before?  The foundation of Joe's business and life lies in the following paraphrased quote:

"When you look in the mirror, who do you see?  Our job is not to __________ (fill in the blank) our job is to serve our fellow man.  Our responsibility is to help our fellow man by improving their lives.  If you focus your time on serving your fellow man, one day you will look in the mirror and you will no longer see yourself, but you will see your fellow man."  

My thought after hearing this today was, "Man I'm selfish."  Whether it is our business life or personal life, what is our responsibility?  This is a hard one for me.  This is one of those things where I know the right answer, but man it's hard.  I hope someday I look in the mirror and see my wife, my kids, my parents, my brother, my brothers in christ, my business associates...........

Nothing Interesting

Well I don't have much to say, but it has been a while since I blogged.  I notice everyday that my stalker total goes up (I surpassed 1000 hits) so I guess somebody out there is hoping I post something.  There is not much new going on in our family.  Everyone seems to be well...FINALLY.  Payton missed a whole week of school last week and ran fever for 8 straight days.

Uh, what else...I went to a Men's retreat last week and had a great time and was really challenged by our guest speaker (our speaker was from OK and like most Okies he was extremely gifted).  In a nutshell, we discussed how our world seems to be under attack and the christian men of this world need to step up.  Why is it that we are so passive about our beliefs? Why do we always feel the need to be politically correct?

Part of our retreat included PaintBall.  It was fun, but I would much rather shoot a real gun at ducks, pheasant, quail, dove, or clay pigeons.  Those paintballs can leave big marks.  I have a bruise the size of a silver dollar on my left bicep.  A paintball hit me right in the vein and broke the vein.

Wow...what a boring post!  Sorry, but that's about all I have to say.

Out

Talking dogs

Too funny. Maybe you have seen this before. If not, enjoy!

Everyone's Sick!!!

Well for several weeks now our family has dodged all of the illnesses that have been going around.  It has finally caught up with us.  Jill and Presley have been fighting off sickness all week and Payton started running fever last night.  She woke up in the middle of the night with a high fever and then woke up this morning with an even higher temperature.  I am waiting on Care Now to call us back so I can take her in.  Before calling Care Now, I called our Doctor friend Cody and even he is sick (Strep).  You know times are tough when the Doctor is sick.